Your Next Step for Completely Empowered Relationships

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What if there was a way for you to have completely harmonious, enriching and empowered relationships all of the time? Where challenges in relationships are exciting opportunities to be more skillful, more clear, more loving? No more breakdowns, only break-throughs into relating rooted in deep care and what will serve and benefit all?

This is something every human being seeks–because we know in our heart of hearts that it is our true nature. So we don’t stop the search until we find it.

Fortunately, the solution is simple, and completely available to you in each moment. And the best thing is, we have everything you need to bring this about in your own life, for real.

Since September we have been exploring the theme ‘Empowering Challenging Relationships’. We’ve loved hearing from you, your successes and challenges, what’s worked and where you have needed clarification and support. We want you to have everything you need to take this as far as you would like for extraordinary relationships .

In this week’s blog, we are sharing how you can bring powerful and truly beautiful relating alive through an amazing Free Training on Bright.

A Super-Powerful Elegant System

For me, meeting Candice O’Denver, the Founder of Balanced View, was just utter relief. It was amazing to learn that nothing about my experience of the world and myself had to change in order to be fulfilled in every single moment, and from that space of clarity and stability, I could then effortlessly relate beneficially, lovingly and powerfully in each moment. It is a shift I simply could not have seen before when all the focus was on the habitual processing and managing of my thoughts and emotions, that I had learned through Psychology and spiritual practices.

Now, what made this Training so unique for me, was that it wasn’t just a nice sounding philosophy, or a course that would have a momentary effect that then evaporates again. It actually is based on a super-powerful, elegant and easy-to-use system that works consistently with immediate results, every single time. And once you understand that system, you can face anything, simply apply it and it will always give the same consistent result.

And with some practice, it becomes automatic, a new way to live and love without any effort, without anything needing to be done. It is a transformation of the way we see ourselves and the world. From victimhood to empowerment. From fear to confidence. From reactivity to skillful means in all relationships.

We See the World With Fresh Eyes

To this day, I remember the week after I completed the Twelve Empowerments Training with Candice, that my mother called me. Just like in the decades before, the conversation triggered all kinds of habitual thoughts, emotions and tension in me. Then I remembered what I had learned in the Twelve Empowerments. I relaxed for a short moment in complete perceptual openness. And the entire dynamic of the call shifted.

I think this was the first time in my adult life that I truly listened to my mother without any expectation, without any story being in the way. We have become closer ever since, without ever having to regurgitate dramas from the past or work on our relationship. It was a complete miracle to me after decades of working so hard to heal this relationship.  

This is not about a technique where you are learning to make incremental little changes to your life; this is about transformation. We see the world and all people with fresh eyes. And that changes everything. Self-improvement projects don’t give lasting results, because they are based on a very narrow and incomplete view of ourselves. For example, when I was practicing psychology and meditation, I believed that experiencing annoyance meant I failed, someone was wrong and that there was work to be done. Through the eyes of open intelligence, however, annoyance is no indication of anything being wrong with me or anyone else, or that I would need to do anything about it. It is like all other thoughts and emotions and resolves in and of itself, like a line drawn in space.

When we wake up from the life-long dream of believing in our data, we are no longer the same. We are wide awake. And it is so good we don’t have to do this alone. True transformation is never a passive process, we are actively participating in a profound change. But we can have guidance and support from those who have gone through this before.

Next Steps for A Life of Empowered, Loving, Easeful Relating

To take this month of empowered relating to the next level, we are offering a special, free 90-minute Training on Sunday 5 November at 8:30–10am PT / 5:30–7pm CET with Mia Castle and I, and invite you to join. In the Training, we will go into the following details:   

In this free-90 min training, you will:

• Access and directly experience your truly peaceful nature in challenging circumstances
• Learn a simple practice that empowers all relationships
  Discover how to enjoy innate loving openness in every moment  
• Click here to register your place and join us on Sunday 5 November at 8:30–10am PT / 5:30–7pm CET! (see your timezone)

We can’t wait to see you there!

With great love,

Jochen & the Bright Team